Couples Coaching

You're here because you're ready to do something different.

I offer in-person or online sessions to help you get to the root of your relationship challenges, and offer practical ways to shift from destructive cycles into a peaceful, joyous and exciting partnership.

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Issues I Work With

Communication Breakdown

You can't talk without it escalating, or you've stopped talking about issues that need addressing. You want tools to have productive conversations where you both feel heard.

Recurring Arguments

The same fight keeps happening - about money, parenting, household responsibilities, or seemingly petty problems. You're stuck in a loop and nothing moves forward.

Intimacy & Connection Issues

You're not having sex, or when you do it feels disconnected. Perhaps one of you wants more sex or sensuality than the other. You want support in navigating the difficult emotions associated like fear, frustration or shame, and creative solutions to experience the intimacy that feels safe, connected and exciting for both of you.

Trust & Betrayal

Whether it's infidelity, lies, hidden spending, or broken promises - trust has been damaged and you're struggling to repair it. You want clear structures for accountability and a way to move beyond wounding and resentment back into trust.

The Closeness-Distance Dynamic

One of you craves more connection while the other needs space. This creates tension and misunderstanding that feels painful for both of you. You want to learn how you can both get your needs met.

Life Transitions

Moving in together, becoming parents, dealing with loss, or major life changes have destabilised your relationship and you're struggling to find your footing. You want to approach these transitions as a team, and get the additional support you might need.

Living with Chronic Illness

One or both of you are experiencing a chronic illness that is affecting the relationship and you want to learn how to support each other without over-giving.

Neurodiversity

One or both of you have neurodiversity (diagnosed or suspected) which is having negative consequences. You may be feeling like a failiure, totally misunderstood, or frustrated with your partner.

Ethical Non-Manogamy

One or both of you want to explore opening your relationship up but not sure how to begin. or you’re experiencing jealousy, struggling to repair ruptures, or wanting more support with creating agreements that work for both of you.

Considering Separation

You're questioning whether to stay together but want to know you've tried everything before making that decision.

Who I Work With

I work with couples of all kinds:

  • Married, engaged, or dating

  • All sexual orientations and gender identities including the trans community

  • Different relationship structures (monogamous and ethically non-monogamous)

  • All ages and stages - from newly together to decades into partnership

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“We have all round better communication. We acknowledge and appreciate each other, and spend less time in conflict.

— Rachel

Rates and Booking

  • £150 for 75 minutes

  • £180 for 90 minutes

  • Held via zoom or in person

  • Office Hours 10 - 6:15 Tue | Wed | Thur

New clients are required to start with a block of 6 sessions, weekly or every other week, after which you can book another block or switch to rolling.

Payment plans available on request.

I am based near Newton Abbot, Exeter and Totnes (Devon UK)

To work with me please book a free discovery to find out if this is a good fit, or drop me a message on my contact page